How do you get over a guy you love?

How are you suppose to get over a guy you've fallen head over heals in love with? How are you suppose to act when you see him around but he doesn't even seem to notice you? Why does it seem impossible to be friends once the relationship is over? No one asked me these questions but I have wondered these things for myself.

• When you fall in love with a guy, the truth is you're gonna love him the rest of your life, even if you deny it. I believe that if you can stop loving them, then you were never in love in the first and said it just because you thought it sounded good. It's gonna take time to get over the routine of being with them though. I know from experience that's it is the hardest thing ever to be with and talk with that someone every day and then go from that to having no contact at all. There are gonna be days that you're gonna be strong and not think about him at all. Then, there are gonna be days where all you think about are the memories and you just wanna lay in bed all day and cry your eyes out. You have things in your room, like a Reeses pillow and sweatshirt he gave you or photos of you two together, but what do you do with them??
• When you see your ex around school, it's so hard not to just look at them and smile or say 'hi'. Believe me, they are most likely feeling the same way you are when they see you. It's even 100% possible that they think about you just as much as you think about them. Sometimes you just gotta look away and pretend you didn't even see them. The best option is to walk around campus with friends so that your eyes don't wonder in a direction that could make your heart feel like dropping.
• I think it's possible to be friends with each other after the relationship is over, it just depends on if each of you are willing to put everything aside in order to do that. Yes I know you've kissed and held hands or maybe even gone a little bit farther than that. In my recent past relationship though, it was more then just a bf/gf bond, we became best friends. We shared everything with each other, even goofed around wrestling or having a pillow fight(not kinky at all). So I not only lost my boyfriend but also my best friend. I'm willing to put everything aside and be friends but like I said, he has to be willing to do the same thing in order for the friendship thing to work out.

**An important note!!**

Never jump into another relationship quickly after you've just got out of one. If you just so happen meet a new guy, take it slow. Make sure you're not using him as a rebound. Not only take it slow because of that, but because you need to find out everything about him first. You don't wanna find out his true colors later down the road when you're together and the pain of losing them hurts worse then it could of if you just waited.

If you're asking these same questions and you just feel like your heart is still broken, go do something to keep yourself from dwelling on the sad times. Go on a walk, hang with friends, make new friends, just don't spend too much time alone. Most importantly, give it all to God!! 

Revelations 21:4 says,

"He will wipe away every tear from your eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away."

Sincerely, 

Love